i overheard my wife talking about me

The world is bad enough with mean enough people, you dont need your team mate trash talking you too. Im sorry dude but girlfriends have secrets and Im pretty sure that there are conversations youve had that youd be ashamed for your wife to have heard. And had kids with you. Can you trust a person like that after all this? She basically said, well if you werent listening at the door you wouldnt be upset right now. Your sex life sounds amazing. Created by your wife. I mean the "I overheard my wife say something upsetting about me to her friends" genre is a little played out. First, I am so sorry she made those statements for whatever the reason. 1) Your wife was so freaked she let the fact that you're bi slip out two years ago yet continues to discuss it with them? I turned to my wife with a raised eyebrow and announced I guess you didnt have me pegged to be a man that would stand up for himself! And I majestically brushed my cape back and walked right out of the house. I just chain smoked and clinched the steering wheel so hard I thought I was gonna break it. My ex used to talk about our sex life to her friends all the time and though I thought things were good - I never felt comfortable with this arrangement. Yeah, all of those things are a painful betrayal. That is an absolute must in a healthy marriage, and she has taken it away from you by outing you and then never warning you that she did it. Also, she may have "let it slip" 2 years ago, but obviously they've all talked about it since. So my wife and one of her girlfriends were having a few glasses of wine, and while I was in my office I overheard a very awkward part of their conversation The other woman was complaining about her husband, quite openly, and specifically about the size of his penis. Lol, yup its amazing how scared people are to just be themselves. How do you hang out with that friend group now knowing all their extra bullshit? I don't know that I could ever trust and be vulnerable with her again. But try couples counseling and go from there. That that is a topic of conversation is absurd. I think that sometimes both men and women have a form of locker room talk with their friends about topics that maybe they arent entirely truthful about with their friends in order to make them feel better. You need to tell her how this has made you feel and how hurt you are by it. No pun intended. You're married to the person who should MOST be on your side and she has completely betrayed you for a fucking laugh. Wife: babe were you in the kit. I cut her off. I agree with this comment as a bi person! I am pretty much an open book with my partners. She might actually be into the stuff you guys do but is pressured by her friends to be a shitty person. Smoked. I'm a bisexual woman, and if my husband told his friends that he thinks of other women when we do more than vanilla sex, I'd tell him to go find less. Who cares. He is my best friend, and I would never make fun of him behind his back like that. This is now twice that she has blabbed something intensely personal while intoxicatedthat you know about. Why does she feel the need to show off to her friends in a way that makes them think less of you? She's painting an imaginary picture for these "friends" with absolutely no regard to the feelings of the person she's supposed to love & care for. She said that was why she made the comment about thinking about Tom during some things we do sexually because she felt they were judging her for being with me. Going forward, she needs to seriously consider what she says to her "friends" if she cannot say them infront of you openly. So many unnecessary details. You deserve better treatment from her. She was prepared to throw you under the bus and make you the butt of a joke just to impress her friends? Just shows she has no loyalty. Still, you are gonna have a serious talk and you're gonna have to make her understand this was unacceptable. There are many things that could be said or done that are definite "break up" situations, but this is not one of them. Me: Oh, does (friend) work with Tom? I said this as sarcastically as possible. Im scrolling Reddit at night because its an escape from my own personal issues, so I might not be connecting some dots. This is a recipe that you can utilize to get through a tough circumstance or even a bad day. she also choose to make fun of you to her friends instead of standing up for you. The only talking I'd be doing at that point would be discussing how she wants to split custody. Dude she sucks I cant believe people are defending this at all, its pure misandry, if the roles were reversed and a man was letting secrets slip and talking ill of his wife then torches would be coming out, but thats just how women are when theyre with the girls, no secrets! Fuck all that haha, that is so disrespectful. Good luck and I do feel for you. Ebony milf with big tits, shaking young boy's cock in rough modes 06:00. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Bruuh this is too much for me I'm 52 yrs old, veteran, communications workers close to company retirement, whatever you do just enjoy life. Good luck bro! So she's been hiding this for a couple years instead of letting him in on all the jokes behind his back. If alcohol was involved the first time she told them, maybe she was talking about it because she wanted to get a read on how her friends would react. Well 1. Sorry man, I feel like we all over share with our friends sometimes. But I also feel like it's a betrayal you can come back from. Why would she tell them that you enjoy pegging? It was lovely that the mate called you and said what he did. I live in a fairly large Canadian metropolitan area, most guys I know and hang out with are even a little bi. If she cant trust herself to keep her mouth shut around her friends when drunk, then she shouldnt drink around her friends. Thats her game, and I suggest therapy and also congratulate you, my dude, on taking it so calmly. The mmmhmmm's give that away. She said two of her friends are judgmental and believe youre either gay or straight and since I enjoy men (only sexually, not romantically) I must be gay. That sucks that your wife has such closed minded friends. Ive never felt this upset. Do you believe what she told you? I agree with the counseling. I dated a man who tried to beat the bisexuality out of me because the few girl friends I had were "my type." Things ended when Tom took a job across the country and my wife chose not to follow him. The fact that her mindset even thinks doing things like anal play are bi tells me she probably has some internalized homophobia she needs to deal with. The real question on my mind is why is she friends with people who belittle you for your sexuality? Therapy is the next logical step. I also really dont like how shes the one who initiates/etc yet was making fun of it?? she outed you, made cruel jokes about your guys sex life, and didnt shut down her friends for being homophobic/biphobic. The best part was, after a couple of months, everything was solved, tadalafile was no longer necessary, I find out she had a hookup during that period. she can claim she doesnt mean it all she wants but that will not change the fact she said it and then didnt defend you when things got ugly. My life would have been infinitely better if my parents didnt do that shit. Oh My God, seriously? Frankly I would be more able to forgive infidelity than I would these kind of conversations. Maybe. That's where your power is. Id give yourself more time before going home and talking. Even if it was a close call, you dont say that. I learned that it is usually a sign of people not sharing everything, not saying that is your situation, but she violated your trust and didnt even give you the courtesy of giving you the heads up. As a female this reads as if it wasn't the first time it's been brought up and her friends knew it was safe to mention and joke about it. What she did was so horrible. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. No one cares. Just as all good things come to an end, so too do all the bad things. I couldnt believe it. Let's give your wife the benefit of the doubt for a moment. I have also been outed in a similar way. Sorry you're going through this. How disgusting can she be? Your wife IMMEDIATELY tried to gaslight you as soon as she found out you heard what she had said. Maybe you should ask him if that not problem why he upset. Best of luck. Exactly! The guys almost definitely do not give a fuck. Its just so cowardly and shows she's not on your team. You heard the truth when she was talking to her friends, about your private life, without your knowledge. By bringing it up then and making your feelings the most important feelings in the room, you are being childish. Ugh. Ban the girls from the house. You poor man, I so want to give you a hug. This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. I would divorce my husband if he let his friends make comments about my sexuality, and then proceeded to say he fantasized about other women during sex. Im about to grab the beers and be on my way. She destroyed your trust, and trust takes a long time to repair. I would take a long look to see if this is reconcilable. Sorry bro, no words. If after you calm down you still feel like being together, I would even consider moving out. I am a very chill guy. I'm getting angry just sitting here cause I've personally witnessed this so many times. How long has she been friends with them? Including mutual friends that were homophobic and a girl who hated my guts (and my ex totally knew about those things). he was more "passionate" etc. Funny thing she thought it would cheer me up to tell absolutely fucking everyone, just to cheer me up. You can't act if you don't know how you feel. Divorce. Cuz while I get what youre saying, what OPs wife said was beyond just a little oopsie. And highlight that she prioritized her friendships over your feelings. I'm not saying she will, I don't know her and can't make that call. Clearly and simply. She does have a right to talk to you about it, and you with her. Marriage counseling needed. It's tough but I would stay just for the kids. Couples counseling may help rebuild trust. Im sorry about your situation; not sure what I would do. From one bi to another, I'm sorry you had to go through this, it's a bisexual's nightmare scenario to hear your long-term partner say this kind of shit. I got in my car and drove to my mom's house. If a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty. Your wife betrayed your trust, and knowingly let her friends make homophobic comments. Your wife violated your trust multiple times. I was in a conversation with two other girls about anal sex. Repeat offenders shouldnt get second chances and neither should first time ones. Theres people that will truly respect you and love you the right way. I could only imagine how crap you feel right now. From everything, the most painful one was when exposition. Get used to me being stupid". We never fight. My only advice is to give it time. I think forcing her to go no contact with certain friends is crossing a line in a relationship that can never be repaired. She has betrayed your trust. All I know is I would never trust my wife ever again after something like this. Nope, don't buy it. I would never be able to fully be myself around my wife again after such an event, and to me that means there's just no way we can work anymore. Like it may have been rooted in some truth, but exaggerated and theatricated for like entertainment purposes. This is what I found out: She let my sexuality slip two years ago at a bachelorette party to her friends when she was completely shit faced and didnt remember till one of the girls made a joke about it and she freaked out and made them swear to never tell anyone she told them cause she knew how upset Id be. Your sexuality isn't really fodder to take the piss out of. Also, if shes lying to you about this, I feel absolutely certain that are other things you dont know. She was shitfaced when she admitted your sexuality, was pressured to mock your sexuality by her terrible friends, and she didn't actually mean to completely fucking demean you sexually. Never stay with someone because of the kids and don't ban alcohol from your spouse this is terrible advice. Id say therapy but honestly no, she knows she fucked up and instead of standing up for you, let it happen. Girls can be katty and have fun taking diggs at each other (guys too but its a stereotypical thing with girls). Possibly she has to talk to the friends and say that she loves her man, and she loves his kinks, and that she was only saying that stuff to gossip. You can be pissed and hurt and angry for now and work on it. Think about you right now, and what you want. I would want to know why, if it was me. Its amazing where friendship comes from in the darkest of times. What she did was just bottom of the barrel type of shit. Do not just shrug it off if you stay. That's plain shitty. Wow dude. After reading this post, I was so shocked I seen this as the first comment but was also laughing badly. Go for a hike, go to a movie, whatever. Even if it is a stay vacation somewhere near your home. I was hurt when I found out he had outed me to a couple of friends while bragging about some of our exploits, and he apologetically told me the day he did it because it just slipped out during bro time reading your story made my stomach churn. I don't think you will recover from this. The Geni has escaped from the bottle, as there's no chance of putting it back in, you need to deal with the humiliation that you feel in how it was told. Seems to me that because of her indifference to your feelings, she needs to get rid of those friends because she emasculated you in front of them. Do not let anybody minimize this either. Im so lost. Any words of wisdom for the talk tomorrow? Im extremely sorry this happened to you OP. Hows everything going out there? she asked motioning to the garage smiling nervously. I had no privacy. How long have you been the butt of their homophobic jokes? I am so sorry this has happened to you. Based on the way she acts in private i would think you are right in your opinion. "I overheard my wife talking to one of her best friends on the phone while I was passing the bedroom. Would she throw them under the bus too or try to forbid them from coming out? She's probably said more and worse in the past two years the women have known. German Young Boy Seduce Big Tit Step-Mom to Lost Virgin 16:20. And her dissing your sexual needs to her friends and I truly understand that it was very hurtful and disrespectful to you and your marriage. For example, he keeps in touch with some of his exs and although it's his business he is always transparent with me because he know how I would feel if it was behind my back. "Hey babe, sorry I shit-talk about you and betray your trust. Best of luck. Fourth, (and this is a guess) given that your wife has some judgemental friends, she is probably just talking some crap that she does not necessarily mean. Especially the part where she acts like its a close call between you and Tom to her girlfriends. Yet, evrything else you've said indicates that she does value you: this relationship was not strained up until this point, and nobody (apart from some really messed up people) can "play pretend" for so long. Take a few days away from everything. Don't leave mate just get a bit of counselling to talk through your feelings about this situation with her and get some grounding. She probably just wants to belong and is afraid to stand up to, i am guessing here, to friends with stronger personalities. Thats some boomer logic about the sex binary of gay/straight. Im a bisexual guy, I like guys strictly sexually. Your life, you know the relationship better than us, but this is plenty to break a marriage. As long as you are honest with yourself then it will all work out. Especially since it contradicted her actions so much. Is she going to listen to her friends claim that you being bi has somehow swayed them? What can you say or she say tomorrow? Nothing really, it's all been said, nothing can change it. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. She should have told you from the beginning that she let it slip and stood up for you to her friends. Any time it would come up I would think about those words. Or even a long drive. You need to learn how to deal with being outed and your stupid wife needs to understand the true ramifications for you. My late uncle had to watch his wife leave him on his sick bed because she couldn't bring herself so be seen that way, talking about "a whole me tending to a sick man, me I can't oh let his family do it ".. I 100% understand why you're so upset. Don't make any decisions until you have calmed down. Next time she will really consider how the way she's talking to her friends could make you feel. Will you ever be able to trust her with any important information again? Your anger is justified, but breaking up your wonderful family over this is too much and a shame? Thats not the kind of person you stay with. Also, she doesn't like your sex life. Keep sleeping on it, brother. It's time to contact a lawyer, bro. About number 2, she's lying and trying to back pedal. Seems like she might have played along a little too much to sound cool to her friends. At the beginning of the marriage endometriosis and disparei is, we spent almost an year without sex, I was always by her side, left the work early, never even thought about hookups or relief with other women. Chin up man. Its very helpful to be able to be open about everything with our friends, cause it makes our open marriage life so much easier without having to keep it secret and hidden, so Im really sorry that you guys have to keep your bisexuality such a secret. Are you being a bit harsh? Best of luck with whatever you decide! It's human nature. Yes, I do think you need to talk to her about it - it's not something that's going to go away. OP-the one man who reached out to you, I feel he is a solid individual and have to give You major points to talking with him. I am not straight, nor am I gay. Many of your friends and family pick up on this anyway. Or will she stand by him, tell her friends she is the one who was lying because she was afraid of their reactions, and own her shit? She let slip things that suggests she views OP inferiorly. Also, the fact that she let her friends talk shit about him while she and OP are supposed to be in a happy marriage Damn, that says a lot. They seem like they knew exactly what she was talking about, like it was a familiar topic. What else is she keeping from OP? My fears were confirmed she'd been talking to him for a good while. However you don't have to forgive and forget either; life isn't black and white. Therapy is what you need. She chose to prioritize platonic bonds over her marriage and honestly just participated in casual homophobia at the expense of her husband. She said 'girls talk' and she has to have someone to talk to about stuff. I am so sorry. We have an exciting and active sex life. Posing with her Dutch-born man, the 29-year-old . It is also extremely concerning that she never told you that Tom approached her before the wedding. First off, sorry, if a man and woman are doing sexual things together, it isn't gay. The slider to the patio from the kitchen is open. She said she really felt bad when she realized she outed you, but I mean how sorry is she really if here she is bringing it up AGAIN? What you say too each other is one thing but to the outside world your SO is the best cook lover protector whatever. Just remember she was crying because she was caught. It shouldnt be that way forever, and hopefully it isnt one day. "My. But you have every right to be angry. He said his wife told him what happened and he wanted to let me know he doesnt give a shit about me being bi and thinks the while situation is fucked. Would she have thrown Tom under the bus like that to entertain her friends ignorance? Add on the fact that her friends were telling her that Tom was in town - thats another reason she needs to drop the problematic friends. Are there no angry bi men who look like grocery store managers? If this is a hurdle you feel like you cant get past, then work on it. That power over you is now dissipated - especially if you do your best to be yourself and act normal. Her to never talk to her friends?? Yeah, I have a hunch that her apology is going to include counseling and new friends. There's a wide gulf between those that think that's okay and the rest of us. She has taken away your ability to feel safe being vulnerable and honest with her. Thats pretty telling. OK she was drunk and your sexuality came out in a stupid moment. I could give the benefit of the double and believe she fakes the homophobic/biphobic stuff for her friends. Couples therapy. No, don't buy it. you'd be shocked but how many wives/girlfriends go into detail about their sex lives with their friends. You are both going to be have to go to couples therapy and individual therapy sessions. Agreed! Had a similar situation with my best friend. It takes a lot of trust and vulnerability to explore kinks with somebody. You need a therapist to help you process what you're feeling, you need to process that in your time and she needs to fucking wait for you to do it if she really cares about you. Too many people on this app will read this and tell she can never be trusted again and you need to divorce. No matter how much she tells you she really enjoys it, there will now always be that voice in your head that tells you she really doesn't. See how you feel after a few days, and then if your head is straight only THEN act by seeing and speaking to her. To me this is an unfortunate situation one you would never have known about but for some low key curious snooping and snooping isn't meant as you were being a sneaky individual just a situation happened and you were part off it. i would like to add a partner should never ever make you feel ashamed or embarrassed about your sexuality. personally id be filing for divorce right away, being outed alone can be dangerous let alone your own partner then further breaking your trust by cracking jokes about your sexuality. I have no idea how you will be able to have sex with her. For the record, any intelligent person knows that there is no straight/gay/bi sex acts. Hubby is under the bus & she's driving over him again & again unnecessarily! This is probably something couples therapy can help you navigate. hey i mean, im not married, live with my bf and have 2 cats and a dog. The other men were cowering in my path - perhaps it was the still throbbing splitting seams, or maybe it was the velocity I was able to achieve on my heelys from the downward grade of my driveway. Also you say you feel emasculated. If youre ever going to get past this, you should both be in therapy. This has big sad middle America vibes or something. I have a key and texted her I needed to stay there for the night and she said of course without any questions asked. Your wife shouldnt have outed you to her friends. They were basically talking about me (no one contacts me anymore, just my wife to commend her on how loyal she is despite having a douchebag loser husband), and I overheard her agreeing with the person on the phone. How could you ever trust this person again. The whole oh I was just really drunk excuse for any stupid decision is pure bullshit. OP, be worried that you're married to someone willing to lie about how they feel about you to have a better image for their friend group. It's only a reference to who you choose to have sex with. Is going to take a very long time to fix such fuckery. Not only that, but she didn't admit to him that she had done it when she sobered up. If shes serious about your marriage shell reassess her friends group too. That is a childish excuse, to blame alcohol for being a terrible friend and partner. I told her how emasculated and embarrassed I felt. I would just ask why her friends opinions matter more than yous twos intimacy. It's not their sex life that she discussed, it's HIS sexuality, something he stated he largely kept private. Personal details should remain private. How I interpret she feels: she let slip in a drunken night that youre bi, she enjoys your sex life and when her friends made you the butt of the joke and were being judgmental about it, she felt ashamed, and in true weak fashion chose to join in vs stand up for you and herself. Those homophobes won't care that he's married to a woman. After some begging I agreed to come home tomorrow and talk. This crap has been swimming around for TWO FUCKING YEARS. Dude, she needs to recognize that her violation of your trust is incredibly bad. Wife and I have been married 7 years and its literally the marriage everyone wants. Do good anyway. My dad was bisexual and if I heard my mother saying shit like that about him Id be livid. The guys and I were in the garage smoking and throwing back some beers just bullshitting about this and that. I (45M) have been married to my wife (45F) for 20 years. Anyone that believes stay for the kids has literally never had any experience as a kid whos parents stayed for them. If it was truly an accident, she shouldn't keep talking about it, she should always just say "I fucked up in telling you that. You are going to have to shrug this off but your not overacting. The simple fact of the matter is she shit talks you behind your back. I was so suprised how she talked about me to her friends and family..and when I confronted her I had the evidence. No shit. That is something you tell your partner immediately after it happens (same with exposing your sexuality to her friends). They were together for 3 years. Dude that story is messed up. Honor every feeling, but don't become paralysed by them. Second communicate. That's what's really completely messed up - she's been joking with pals behind his back for a couple years and never told him she had slipped up. Also, people who have satisfying sex lives dont talk about it, just like people who have actual wealth dont have to tell you). Things that concern only you two she turn into an open truth and open truths she kept from you. Outing you accidentally is one thing, but there are a load of major no-nos here. At a minimum she should have come clean about the bachelorette party thing the moment it happened. Let's give your wife the benefit of the doubt for a moment. Just here to let you know bi guys are preferable. Your wife is a pretty disgusting person. MILF Teacher seduce to Fuck Anal by Young Boy 12:11. Sounds like there needs to be an understanding formed between you guys and what is appropriate conversation with friends. She said she thought about him and thinks they were young and made stupid mistakes. The moment your sexuality became some kind of giggle fodder was when it really crossed the line. Whats going to happen if your kids turn out to be not straight or not Cis? She shouldnt care what others think of her or you, let alone talk about you negatively behind your back. Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. People can be so two-faced with that kind of thing. Very much agree with this person right here. So (and this is where your perception of the relationship comes in) you have to determine whether she was going with the flow of the conversation or whether she does actually have an issue with that. 2. You should seek marriage counseling after this. Wow dude, that sucks and I feel bad for you. How much more reassurance do you need? I'd also put the missus on a yellow card and ask her to be more honest about the Tom thing; the fact he treated her badly and you're the opposite must be a good factor in staying together. What a surprise, all her excuses completely absolve her! My mom was told me drunk words are sober thoughts. 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